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Greencastle, Indiana ~ Friday, October 10, 2008
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I'm amazed ... and not in a good way
Posted Sunday, June 8, 2008, at 9:48 AM<< Previous | Read comments | Respond | Email link | Next >>
Sometimes I write a story and I know it's going to get people fired up.
Other times I write things that seem innocuous to me, but end up opening floodgates like I never could have imagined.
On Friday, I wrote a story about a fund set up at the Putnam County Community Foundation in memory of an African-American teen who died last December as the result of an accidental prescription drug overdose. The fund will be dedicated to supporting causes and projects aimed at bettering the lives of African-Americans in the community.
This morning (it's Sunday), there are 24 comments posted in response to that story. As I read them, I was struck by a couple of things.
First, for as long as the community foundation has been around and for all of the good work it has done, one would think people would be better acquainted with what the organization actually does. Several of the comments decried the establishment of a fund that would benefit only African-Americans.
OK, people, here's the thing: Funds are more often than not set up like individuals just like you and me. The idea is that people can put funds in place to benefit causes that are dear to their hearts. If you take a look at the list of funds at the foundation's Web site, most of them are there to benefit a certain thing or specific groups of people. That's the nature of these funds, and everyone ... no matter what color their skin is, what religion they are or anything else ... has the same right to set up a fund at the foundation to benefit whatever or whomever they choose.
Secondly, it's not racist to take pride in your heritage, as it appears Dietrich Jackson did. I have no idea what my ethnic background is, and I wish I did. I applaud Dietrich for embracing the fact that he was a minority in a very white community and didn't make any apologies for it.
Lastly, I don't think anyone is trying to gloss over the circumstances that led to Dietrich's death, nor is anyone trying to glorify him for it. He made a mistake.
I make mistakes. I look back at my teenage years, and there are any number of times I could have died because of my rash decisions. Dietrich Jackson died by his own hand, accidentally or not, and everyone, including his family, is well aware of that.
I've also lost a child, which is a heartbreak I don't wish on anyone. That people would point fingers, criticize and make cruel remarks when a family is trying to heal itself after the worst tragedy imaginable simply boggles my imagination. Comments Showing comments in chronological order [Show most recent comments first] |
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OK here is my view on this and it may not be popular with you or some others but it is how I feel. Apparently you have lived in te area down there for a while and know the make up of the area, you cannot be wierded out by how people are acting with this viewpoint of yours. It is all about the color of this kids skin, nothing more nothing less. You live in a community not too far from where a former Imperial Wizard of the Ku Klux Klan resides and have for a while. I grew up in a community where there were no people of color and no diversity whatsoever, in fact, I think this year the schools 45th year in existence finally graduated the first person of color. You cannot change the minds of the older people but you can influence the minds of the younger generation so concentrate on them and let the old people think how they wanna think.
Thanks Jamie, for the original story, and for this follow up. Nice to see an intelligent person with an open mind willing to stick it out there.
And jaredscousin, you are right on point. You can not change the way the older generation thinks. And despite the best, or worst, efforts of the older ones, the new generation is already showing signs of tolerance and understanding that will sustain the movement towards more intelligent ways to deal with our diversity in the years to come. So stick to your guns young man because you're part of the change to come, albeit none to soon.
Thank you, Jamie, for trying to help people understand both how the foundation works and the purpose of the fund being to honor Dietrich's memory by helping someone else. Why a gesture intended to be positive stirs up so much hatred is beyond my comprehension.
SIGH. Thank you, Jamie.
JV
I completely agree. I almost cried when I read some of the VERY ignorant comments. I was VERY offended. It seems everyone thinks the world owes them something simply for existing. And how quick people are to point out the mistakes of others, even people like Dietrich who were at least trying to make a difference in this world.
you go, greengirl!
I would like to know why everyone keeps saying Dietrich was trying to make a difference in the world? what difference was that? Hard telling how many teens in Greencastle were introduced to drugs through him.
Nice try greencastlemom, but the people who supplied the drugs to him, and many others were 23, 24, 43, and 50 years old. And no doubt they told the kids that the drugs were safe to take. And peer pressure undoubtedly had something to do with it to. But if you want to come off like a know it all, then where is your proof, which I would think an intelligent person would have in hand before they started taking shots at someone who is deceased.
thanks, sonicfilter. greencastlemom, if you knew dietrich, you knew he tried to make a difference. you also would know that making a mistake does not make someone a drug dealer. you clearly didn't know him. i think for every asinine comment i read about him, like this one, i'm just going to donate more to the fund.
Yes, greencastlemom. Since you're obviously a mother, maybe you should check on your own kids. Abuse of prescription drugs was a problem when I was in high school; long before Dietrich, and will be long after. Maybe you're just paranoid because Dietrich was a good kid who, like ALL children, made mistakes. This means YOURS too.
And P.S... who knows how many children will now stay AWAY from drugs because they saw that bad things do happen to good people. So he DID make a difference in the world; whether he meant to or not
you rock, greengirl!